How to Give Your Woman A Wild Orgasm
by H. Bangambiki
http://www.myvagina.org
http://femaleorgasmsecrets.blogspot.com
Being a woman, I thought I knew everything there was to know about
female sexuality.But I had always heard of this infamous female
ejaculation, that was supposedly different than just having an orgasm.
I heard stories from my male friends about women they had been with
that had ejaculated. And when I would ask them to describe it, I would
get similar responses: "It squirts out. It's very wet. It's liquid.
It's clear in color. It almost looks cloudy. It's very warm." I still
wasn't convinced, I mean it sounded like my friends got peed on. So I
was on a quest. What is this liquid and if it is female ejaculate,
where does it come from and can I do it too? So I did some research
and this is what I found.
Female ejaculation is an orgasm that not every woman is aware of and
that, as a result, may bring about some very intense emotions. Those
that can do it don't know what to do with it or feel ashamed of it.
Some of the women that I spoke to that could do it didn't want to
because once they did, the men became upset and felt that they were
urinated on. And as I learned, this is just not true. In fact, if you
do get involved with a woman that can, she is a special woman.
It is a very personal thing though. The way they do it and the amount
of fluid they produce can be different. The amount can range from just
a few drops to spewing like a man to, more severe, a shower of it.
So where does it come from? There are several theories, but the one
thing that seems to remain consistent is that female ejaculation is
worked up in the spongy area around the female urethra, better known
as the G-spot. It's located at the upper part of the vagina, just
behind the entrance at the back of the pubic bone. It does actually
feel like a little sponge. When stimulated over a long period of time,
this sponge fills up with fluid. Some women also told me that it kind
of feels like they're urinating, although they know it's not coming
from the same place. It does originate from the same general area,
which is why they feel that way. But this is where the confusion comes
in.
Women's urethra, like men's, supposedly closes up during sexual
activity. There have been many studies. All are basically left with
the a question mark and the reader draws their own conclusion. So
instead of boring you with every little detail, I'll give you the
general wrap up of all the experiments. So the similar chemicals that
have been found in all experiments are a high level of glucose and an
enzyme, prostatic acid phosphatase, which is characteristic of the
prostatic component of semen (whatever that means) and two substances
commonly found in urine, urea and creatinine, which were found at
lower levels than in the subject's urine. (So, okay, there is some
urine substance in female ejaculate, from what they're saying.)
Some have also come to the simple solution that in some women it is
very similar to urine and in others it is similar to the fluid
produced by the prostate in men. And still more think it may come from
a gland located at the opening of the urethra in the vulva.
So, wow! I believe from all the research that I've done, is that it
probably is a little bit of both: prostate type fluid and urine. But
hey, sex is supposed to be fun and exciting. If your woman gets so
damn excited that she pees on herself, you should take it as quite the
compliment.
We will discuss it in a separate article, but I have also learned that
g-spot stimulation is not the only way to make it happen. A lot of
first timers will ejaculate from that type of stimulation, but it is
not necessary in those women that can.
There are some useful tips, in dealing with a female ejaculator. If
you are both into bondage, by all means tie her down. The movements
will be extremely strong, unexpected, uncontrolled and sometimes can
be spasmodic. Also, spread the bed with lots and lots of towels,
because you do not know how much fluid may come out, but there's a
fair chance it will easily fill up two or three layers of towel. And
please be safe about it. The fluid may spray around like a fountain.
Do not worry. If the fluid does contain the HIV virus, it is killed
within seconds after it has left the body and exposed to a temperature
lower than the average body temperature. But do avoid accidentally
getting it on your lips and in your eyes, just to be safe.
What is a female orgasm?
I'm writing this explanation in the assumption that you - the reader -
are male. But what follows will be of interest to a lot of female
readers too. What happens in a woman's body during a climax is very
like what happens in your (male) body when you ejaculate. In other
words, there's a feeling of increasing excitement, building up to a
point where everything 'blows' in a great blast of ecstasy. This
'orgasmic moment' is characterised by surges of contractions in the
sex organs, occurring almost every 0.8 seconds.
Men are well aware that these throbs of pleasure are accompanied by
the pumping out of spurts of seminal fluid. Obviously this doesn't
happen in women. A few females do produce some fluid at orgasm, but
the impression given in so many erotic stories that most women
'ejaculate' is not correct. Only a minority of females do this.
Multiple orgasms
The other big difference between male and female orgasm is this: after
the first climax, many women can 'come' again, often within a minute
or two. This ability is extremely rare in males. Relatively few young
women can achieve multiple orgasm, because it's an ability that
usually has to be learned. But with the help of a skilled lover, most
women can eventually achieve the capacity for multiple orgasms - if
they so desire.
Bringing the female to a climax
For men perhaps the most important thing to realise about female
climaxes is that with females, it's not a mechanical thing - as it
generally is with men. You see, most males will ejaculate quite
quickly if they have their penises rubbed. This applies even if the
circumstances aren't very romantic - or even if they don't
particularly like the person who's doing the rubbing! Women are not
like this! Female orgasm isn't a push-button response. The conditions
have to be right. Although females vary, in general, they need the
following if they're going to reach a climax:
-a romantic atmosphere for your female mate
-pleasant, comfortable surroundings for your female mate
-a partner who they really like
-a feeling of being wanted and appreciated for your female partner
-a good flow of natural lubrication - so that the delicate female
parts don't get sore
-a skilled partner who knows how to stimulate the clitoris.
Unless you can provide the above, you are not going to have great
success in giving your partner orgasms. Please bear in mind that -
contrary to what many men think - sexual intercourse by itself is not
likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not
very good at stimulating the woman's clitoris. Nearly all females need
additional stimulation of the clitoris by fingers or mouth.
What to do
In summary, here's what to do if you want to bring your partner to
orgasm regularly:
-don't be in a rush.
-don't be too demanding - it's not an Olympic event.
-talk to your partner, and ask her what she wants you to do to her.
-always create a romantic atmosphere.
-make sure that everything is comfortable and nice for her.
-give her lots of kisses and cuddles before you even think about
making any approach to her sexual area.
-when you do start to stroke, rub or kiss her genitals, don't rush
into 'attacking' her clitoris. Take things gently, and see what she
wants.
-use her own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris. (If she is
over 40, it may be a good idea to use some additional lubrication from
a chemist or a sex shop).
-remember that stimulation of the clitoris is the key to female orgasm.
A man's erection is likely to alternate between harder and softer
during sexual intercourse. If he's wearing a condom, it is very likely
that the condom will slip off from time to time if this happens. Men
can usually feel when that is happening, and, if they are responsible,
they will withdraw and put another condom on when they get hard enough
again. That's why it's a good idea to have a good supply of condoms
around when partners decide to have sexual intercourse.
If a condom slips off during sex, it is possible for ejaculate to
spill out. If the condom with ejaculate in it slips off inside a
woman's vagina, it is possible she can become pregnant or infected
with a sexually transmitted infection. A woman who is concerned about
unintended pregnancy after a condom breaks or slips off may want to
consider using emergency contraception pills (ECPs) to reduce her risk
of pregnancy.
by H. Bangambiki
http://www.myvagina.org
http://femaleorgasmsecrets.blogspot.com
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